Counselling Focus Area

Kink & BDSM counselling

Why specialised kink & BDSM counselling?

In the intricate tapestry of human sexuality, kinks and BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) play significant roles for many.

While these practices can be sources of deep connection, exploration, and pleasure, they also come with their own set of challenges and misconceptions.

A kink-affirming and sex-positive counselling practice aims to provide a safe, understanding space where individuals and couples can navigate, understand, and celebrate their unique desires.

Kink & BDSM Counselling

Understanding kink & BDSM counselling

Kink & BDSM counselling is centered around:

  • Affirmation: Validating and accepting the diverse range of sexual expressions and desires.

  • Education: Providing accurate information about safe, consensual, and responsible behaviours

  • Emotional Exploration: Assisting individuals in understanding and processing the emotions associated with their desires and experiences.

Why seek counselling relating to kink & BDSM?

Engaging in kink and BDSM practices can present various challenges and concerns:

  • Navigating New Desires: For those new to kink or BDSM, understanding and accepting emerging desires can be daunting.

  • Safety and Consent: Ensuring all activities are consensual and practiced safely is paramount. Counselling can provide guidance on setting boundaries and understanding limits.

  • Dealing with Stigma: Societal judgments or misconceptions about kink and BDSM can lead to feelings of shame or isolation.

  • Relationship Dynamics: Navigating power dynamics, roles, and communication within kinky relationships.

The benefits of kink-affirming and sex-positive counselling space

Choosing a counsellor who is both kink-affirming and sex-positive offers numerous advantages:

  • A Judgment-Free Space: Clients can discuss their desires, experiences, and concerns without fear of being misunderstood or stigmatized.

  • Tailored Guidance: Given the unique nature of kink and BDSM dynamics, therapists offer bespoke strategies and insights.

  • Building Confidence: By understanding and accepting one's desires, individuals can confidently and safely explore their kinks.

What to expect in kink & BDSM counselling

Engaging in counselling tailored for kink and BDSM typically involves:

  • Assessment: The counsellor will start by understanding the client's experiences, desires, and any challenges they face.

  • Educational Discussions: Insights into safe practices, consent, and the psychology of kink and BDSM.

  • Emotional Processing: Exploring feelings of shame, excitement, fear, and pleasure to ensure a well-rounded understanding of one's desires.

  • Skill Building: Enhancing communication, understanding consent, and setting boundaries in kink and BDSM dynamics.

FAQs

  • All sessions are held online, via encrypted telehealth.

  • Our practitioners work varying hours, Monday to Friday.

  • The sessions run for 50 minutes and are either $150 standard or $105 concession.

  • Email admin@progressivetherapeutic.com.au

  • We endeavour to be a flexible practice, providing opportunity for reschedules and cancellations with up to 24 hours notice. Any appointment rescheduled or cancelled with less than 24 hours notice, will be charged the full amount. We are a small practice and our sole income is derived from our sessions.

Our kink therapists

  • Sarah Newbold (she/her)

    Counsellor, Social Worker & Clinical Supervisor

We work on land never ceded.

We acknowledge the Whadjuk people of the Noongar Nation,
the Traditional Owners and custodians of the Land on which our practice is based,
and pay respect to Elders past, present and future.